When she talks about her late
husband, Marge Williams can’t seem to help herself. “I
don’t want to make Jim sound like a saint, but I just
admired that man so much. I’ve known pastors who kind
of move Jesus over to the left side of God so they can sit on
the right hand themselves. That was never Jim. He told me when
he proposed to me, ‘Now you need to know what you’d
be getting into. If you think you’re marrying a guy who’s
looking to move up from a small church to larger and larger
ones, I’m not that guy. I just want to go where I’m
needed.’”
Jim was serving a small church in Connecticut and finishing
his seminary doctorate when World War II broke out. Although
he’d planned to teach at a seminary himself, five years
as a chaplain in World War II taught him his real calling was
as a pastor. On his return to the U.S., he began a pastorate
in Dodge City, Kansas. He’d been there a little over a
year when he was asked to make a presentation to the Kayettes
at the high school. He and their sponsor hit it off right away.
Marge and “Rev Jim” began dating and were married
in another year.
At first, Marge mostly accompanied Jim on hospital visitations.
Then some of her former high school students asked her to start
a youth group. “I didn’t know much about being Presbyterian,
but I gave it a try, and soon we had a wonderful youth group.
After that, everywhere we went, we started youth groups.
“Our home was always open to the kids. We weren’t
able to have children, so we just gave that love to the youth
in our church. We always had a jigsaw puzzle set up in our manse.
When kids had a problem, they’d come by ‘to work
on the puzzle.’ It might take a week, but usually their
problem would come out—be it alcohol, an unwanted pregnancy,
or young men thinking they might be gay—they knew we’d
help them with their problems and not stand in judgment. I’ve
come to think that God didn’t give us children because
someone needed to work with these kids down through the years.”
Almost thirty years into his ministry, Jim was serving a large
church in New Mexico when he heard that a small church in Ouray,
Colorado, was about to close. “He said, ‘I can’t
let that little church die,’” Marge recalls. The
next thing they knew, they were serving in a church with 33
members for about $6,000 a year. Even in 1970, that wasn’t
much money. “It was a struggle, but within a couple of
years, that church was thriving, with 140 members, which was
a lot for a town that size.”
It takes humility and a strong sense of call for a successful
large-church pastor in the prime of his career to take the risk
of moving to a dying little church in a small town. It also
takes faith that God will provide for those who take such risks.
Through our gifts to the Christmas Joy Offering, we help Presbyterian
churches keep faith with those who base their decisions on where
God is calling them to serve, not on what offers the most security.
Because of our gifts, Marge Williams receives a housing supplement
that enables her to live comfortably in her retirement.
One half of our gifts to the Christmas Joy Offering helps
students at racial ethnic schools discover their gifts and discern
how God calls them to use them.
The other helps those who have served the church faithfully
meet unexpected financial needs. Both halves help us take care
of one another as members of the family of God. Today, let us
joyfully share God’s abundant love, so evident in this
season of Jesus’ birth, by giving generously to the Christmas
Joy Offering.

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