September 30, 2005
Dear Sisters and Brothers in Christ,
The summer trip with the 25 young women from Kinjo Gakuin University
went great. My goal for the conference was to introduce the young
women to the best foundation for marriage—Jesus Christ.
The first day, I gave a testimony. I talked about how I had become
a Christian to be happy. Since I still was not happy, I married
Judy to be happy. But happiness is a foundation of sand. We were
not happy. After nine and a half years I divorced Judy to find
happiness elsewhere. During our half a year apart, God communicated
His unconditional love to me in a unique way. I decided to make
this unconditional love the new foundation of my life. At the
time, I had little concept how radically this would change my
life. This led to Judy and me getting back together again. The
next ten years we worked on exchanging bad patterns of relating
for good ones. And the past nine years (of our 29 years of marriage)
have been wonderful. |