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  A letter from Simon and Haejung Park in Nepal  
             
 

November 1, 2002

Dear Family and Friends,

It is already first of November, three months since we arrived in Nepal and two more months to go in our language and culture training program. We have not started on any of the tasks on our "job description," but the prerequisite task of relating to the people of Nepal has begun. When we arrived here in August, we focused, like tourists, on the differences in people, culture, and practices. Everything was exciting and exotic. As we began to settle in, we experienced the annoyances and yearned for familiar surroundings so we could function as competent adults. Relying on others' help to survive at a minimal level affected our self-esteem and mental health. We are just beginning to relate to local people as unique individuals with whom we can share our feelings, expectations, and hopes. Compared to our experience in the Congo, the peaks and valleys this time seem less extreme. The well-organized orientation program at UMN has helped us to cope with the emotional and physical oscillation. Perhaps it is the presence of many others with whom we can share the experience, or we may simply be learning to better handle the challenges by trusting that God is in control and his love for us never fails. We are very grateful to God for his care.

 
             
 

"[Our Nepalese friends] find it difficult to accept the logic and morality of attacking Iraq in order to protect the innocent lives in the United States and its allies. Can one justifiably risk innocent lives in one country in order to protect in another?"

  Our apartment is finally finished, except the bathroom mirror, only two months after we moved in. As the mornings and nights begin to get nippy, it is nice not having to leave the front door open all the time for the workers. Houses here do not have any central heating system, but we just purchased two space heaters that should help us stave off morning chills. Four couples started to meet for weekly Bible study at our home. All of us attend different churches and came to Nepal with different mission organizations, but the time to pray for one another and to study Scripture is the most valued time of the week. We decided to worship in a expatriate congregation until we become more functional in Nepali language.  
             
  As we mentioned in our September letter, the Desain holiday season is over and we are entering the Tihar season. We will take the holiday season to take a break from daily language studies and travel to mountain and lake region for a few days. As we observe the activities during the festivals, we feel as though the Nepali folks believe their Gods have limited blessings to give and they must act promptly and properly to get their share of the blessings. Worse yet, if they do not get the blessings, they may face wrath of the gods. Many have told us that they do not believe in the rituals, but they dare not take the risk of receiving punishments for not following rituals. They readily admit that at the root of their religious and cultural activities lies the fear of uncontrollable and negative forces. Undoubtedly, this is an over simplification. Nonetheless, we are grateful for our God with abounding love and justice. How great is thy faithfulness!

Another benefit (?) of living in Nepal at this time is the ability to view world events from more than one perspective. Nepal is not immune to violence. In fact we get our share of daily bombing, although they do not kill as many people as the more publicized events. President Bush's position on Iraq comes up often in discussions with Nepalese and friends from other countries. They find it difficult to accept the logic and morality of attacking Iraq in order to protect the innocent lives in the United States and its allies. Can one justifiably risk innocent lives in one country in order to protect in another? Would ordinary people in America sustain their support of attack if they were able to get to know the ordinary people of Iraq and the region? We feel at times very hypocritical: our church sends missionaries to serve the people all around the world, yet our country is ready to justify killing others "in proactive self-defense." These days our daily prayers are longer as we seek God's forgiveness, love, and wisdom for all.

Three days ago we were invited to a Nepali church. This village church is located on top of a hill a few miles outside of Kathmandu. Most of the elderly members of this village could not come to the main church in town (Baktapur) on Saturdays. Each Tuesday, the pastor and some members of the church go up the hill for worship service. It was only two kilometers, but straight up the hill. After an hour and a half of hard climbing, we arrived at the church. The church was founded by the family of a leprosy patient who was cured at a mission hospital. We met the old lady with missing digits, but a glowing happy face giving thanks and witnessing to others. It certainly was a service many Presbyterians would find un-orderly and un-dignified in form. Although we understood only a few words, we felt the presence of the Holy Spirit amongst us. We could not help but to wish those of us who continue in Book of Order battles could worship together in this church with these illiterate Nepali Christians. Simon was especially grateful for the healthy heart that handled the three-hour walk to experience this Christian community.

Our computer system had a terrible virus attack and we had to reformat the hard disk. We managed to reconstruct most of the email addresses, but not the mailing addresses. Would you be kind enough to drop us a line with your mailing address and the phone numbers?

Please continue to pray for us that we remain spiritually and physically healthy as we enter the last third of the language study. We are also beginning to discuss the details of our assignments beginning next January after the language study. Now is the time to learn and listen and we are trying to be patient and open.

We will talk to you again at Thanksgiving.

Grace and peace.

Haejung & Simon

 
             
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