A few years ago I was
sitting with a father and his son. It was a low moment. The
son had not lived up to the father's expectations. He did
not want to work and was leading a troubled life. He had
quit college after his second year and exhibited some habits
that were not in keeping with his upbringing. As the three
of us talked the tension mounted. Both the father and son
became angry. Deeply frustrated, the father looked his son
in the eye and asked, "Son, when
are you going to grow up?"
This
was Paul's question to the church in Galatia. He was challenging
some followers who failed to realize that their "pedigree" and
social standing did not offer them an exemption from faithful
stewardship. We also need to be reminded that God is not concerned
about our claims to power because we offer significant financial
contributions or time commitments to the church. Such an assumption
represents a lack of spiritual maturity because the focus is
on us, not God. In his book Spiritual
Maturity: Preserving Congregational Health and Balance * Frank Thomas writes:
"Maturity based
on love rather than knowledge is a radical and revolutionary
concept for most of us. The term knowledge is representative
of all the human efforts we make in a competitive world to
establish, justify, and make ourselves better than others
around us. Usually we base maturity on knowledge, human effort,
ingenuity, or accomplishments.
"Sometimes
knowledge is just an exaltation of ourselves based on what
we know about the Scriptures or secular human wisdom. Other
times we laud orthodoxy of belief: then he or she is spiritually
superior. Other times we value the size of people's financial
contributions to the church or how long they or their families
have been in service to the church. We use these kinds of markers
to establish the 'spiritual ones.'
"Spiritual maturity
always focuses on God first. Our financial generosity to the
church is needed. However, God is calling us to "grow
up" so that we
can capture the essence of giving through spiritual maturity.
When we grow up in the Lord, we recognize that God wants to
claim our hearts for the gospel. It is then that our money
and time represent an outpouring of our love for the Almighty.
Are you ready to grow up?
* Fortress Press, (c)2002
(www.augsburgfortress.org).
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